About this Blog.

This is the first blog of Arlene MD; thoughts and reflexions. The goal is to inspire others to see the beauty and positive in every situation they may encounter. Every day of my professional career is working with people who do not know how to see that the glass is half full and not half empty. No matter how bad things may seem, there is always something worse that can happen. Your specific situation could be worse so lets be happy that it's not. Having said that, lets try to change the things you can and accept the ones you can not change. If you are caught in a bad relationship, realize that you can not change an other persons behavior but you can change yours. If you are unhappy, don't waste your time trying to change the other person, just change your own. Either stay or leave, but do what is in your control and live with your decision in peace with yourself. This applies to all areas of life: work, family, friends, spouses, children, parents and so on. Another thing I will write about in future blogs is how people tend to hold on to grudges. It amazes me how people live in the past. Sometimes people are bitter and angry about past life events while the other person involved doesn't seem to care or even know that they have caused hurt or damage to them. Who is wasting their time? You are! Feel free to comment about your own positive experiences. If you don't have anything positive to say, don't say it.There is a saying, "If you spit upward, you will get wet". So read and enjoy!